I am an artist, writer, and photographer. I have a PhD in the history of philosophy and the visual arts, I'm well-traveled, a mountain climber and ice climber. I'm also a certified guide. Overall I like taking risks, in my daily life, in my play life and in my sex life. In my world there is a very real connection between risk and pleasure. Love, kindness and respect are the qualities of a person that I most highly value and that I hope I possess.
With regard to sex, my goal is always my partner's pleasure and ideally mine is hers. Everything else is subservient to the means of achieving this goal. There's no place in making love for self-centered, selfish egos. Rather it can be just the opposite, the ultimate act of losing oneself to become one with the other. It's all about giving and really not about taking at all.
I'll take you wherever you want to go and I'll follow you anywhere.
I'd like to find a friend, companion, confidant and enthusiastic sexual partner all rolled into one. Ideally in addition to this they would have a very high, perhaps even insatiable, sex drive. I'd like my lover to be at least as crazy about sex as I am and also share with me the belief that for us there are no boundaries. She someone who wants to explore and experiment, Shes naturally inquisitive and fascinated by new things and new ideas and wants to experience and even live, life on the edge.. A person for whom there is always another question to be asked. Who doesn't settle for the way things are but wants to know why and asks if it could be different and if so how would it be. I'd like for my partner to be someone who truly lives the saying that you should treat others as you want to be treated yourself. She places others before herself and possesses the self confidence to value giving more than receiving.
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